Letters



Dear 18- year old Nex, 

I once wrote a letter to my 18 year old self and I completely believe that this would change as times change . Have a listen to what I had written back then; and what my guests back then wrote to themselves. The levels of affirmation and consolation back then, understanding and the extension of grace to each other. 



COMING SOON .........



Dear Older Nex, 

Dear Daughter











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