Nex vents

everyone of us thinks and actually knows that they have been through the best and worst of experiences and that is what has made them who they are this day... My mum( i thank God for her) has given me the basic principles that have guided me until this day 1. I was never allowed to eat at the neighbors house; my mum used to say, "What your mum has not given you is human waste." Her exact words; trust me when you are a kid this is super scary. 2. I would never go to my mum crying without a good reason, even if it was a good reason, you had to hold yourself, talk first and then burst into your tears; which wouldn't last long because she would give you reason to go quiet almost immediately 3. She would tell me time and time again to never ever compare myself to anyone when it comes to how other kids are dressed( she used to tailor-make our dresses in the house, seriously there was no way you could even start to compare.)  what they eat; because what she gives you is the ...

Are successful people at peace..rather do they have peace.? or let's put it this way,  what does success mean to you? I treasure my peace of mind much more than anything else. When i do anything, anything at all from eating, moving, breathing, business deal; if and when i have my peace of mind at the end of it all; i think i have succeeded in that which i was engaging myself in.. One of my 'successful' friends (i would like to call him that) asked me the other day, "is it that i made it too early?' he asked me this because he does not have his peace of mind; oh, he got lots of money, changed enough cars since i met him, he's been through a divorce and he's in my age set( i don't believe i'm old yet), he is involved in several business deals running nconcurrently and he is the director.(what could be the problem) You should see this guy when he does not have money, by this i mean he's been asked for almost 100,000 kenya shillings to replace h...

Here is an example of those decisions that you make and you recognize immediately after you have decided and now you would like to pull out; no, i am not married yet; so its not that common mistake that people make. Now, i happened to accept a courtesy call made in the mask of a job.i came all the way to this great office and instead of the great job that i had gone for i was given an example of a job. Let me not even waste your time by giving you a long read; all i know is that from the word go it was all crappy. I will go on a writing diarrhoea(pardon my language) and give you a brief history of my not very good career life. There was this wonderful job that i got, and the boss liked me and thought i had potential. i dive and start workingwith the zeal and passion that i got and guess what i find out in the middle of all the working i find that the boss has Short syndrome bla bla bla i just know its a disorder; so he happens to shout at me not once but several times in a matter o...